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冊 6 · 進階表達 · Lesson 33

委婉拒絕與邊界

Polite No & Boundaries

拒絕要短、穩、給替代或時間盒;C1 的「不」不需過度道歉。

對比

較不自然/易錯更自然的美式說明
Maybe later…(永遠 later)I can't take that on this month. I can revisit in June.可驗證的边界
No problem!(其實有問題)That won't work for me. / I have to say no.別假同意
I'll try…(當你做不到)I won't be able to. / I can do X instead.承諾管理
You never help me!(控訴)I need help with X by Y.要請求非指責

規則/用法

  1. 公式:感謝/認可+清晰拒絕+理由(可選短)+替代方案。
  2. 邊界句:I don't have bandwidth. / I'm not available for that. / That's outside my scope.
  3. 軟拒絕仍清楚:I'm going to pass. / I'll have to decline.
  4. 對重複施壓:I've already said no on that—happy to help with Z instead.

現代例句

  • 投資

    I'm going to pass on leading that syndicate; I can review deals monthly.

    銀團主導我先不接;我可每月審案子。

  • 房產

    I can't take another remodel without dropping quality.

    再接翻修會掉品質,接不了。

  • 生活

    I'm not free that night, but Sunday works for a walk.

    那晚不行,週日可以走走。

  • 生活

    I'll have to decline dinner, but thanks for including me.

    晚餐得婉拒,謝謝邀請。

  • 房產

    That's outside my scope—ask the property manager.

    超出我範圍,問物業經理。

  • 生活

    I need quiet time after back-to-back showings.

    連續帶看後我需要安靜。

跟讀短文

約 81 words · TTS(瀏覽器語音)

I'm going to pass on leading the investors' club this quarter; I can present once on small multi-family. I can't take another listing project without dropping quality on the remodel already in motion. I'm not free Thursday night, but Sunday afternoon works for a casual walkthrough. I'll have to decline dinner, but thank you for including me after a long option-period week. That's outside my scope—you'll want the property manager on vendor payments. I need quiet time tonight.

這季投資者俱樂部主導我先不接;小型多戶我可以分享一次。翻修已在進行,再接掛牌案會掉品質。週四晚不行,週日下午可以隨便走走看。晚餐我得婉拒,謝謝在緊湊評估期後還邀請我。那超出我範圍,廠商付款你該找物業經理。今晚我需要安靜。

慣用語包

I'm going to pass

我放棄/不參與

口語/職場

outside my scope

超出職責範圍

職場

I won't be able to…

我無法…

中性

happy to help with…

…可以幫忙(設邊界後)

職場

迷你練習

  1. 拒絕額外專案但提出替代。
  2. 把 Maybe later 改成可驗證句。
  3. 對朋友勸酒:清楚邊界一句。